English Essay Tips: The role of parents

Parents

Parents are the one who have the biggest affect to their children as they have the most time to spend with them

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1. Allocate some quality time to spend with their children

Why?

- Parents who spend less time with their children

* No understand their situation and condition

* No know their interests and needs

Effect

- These will let conflict occur and they will feel lacking of love and make problems to get their parents’ attention.

- Likewise, they will understand their situation and condition well, they will get love form their family and they will not make problems.     

Example

- Go for a trip and having sport activities

2. Be patience and understand their children

Why?

- During adolescence, teenager always stressed out (need to cope with problem and the changes of body) 

- Ask for freedom and flexibility in handling their life and activities

How?

- Be patient and more open-minded in trying to understand their opinions

- They need to be give their children some measure of freedom and independence as they more towards adult 

Effect

- Understand their children well

3. Encouragement

How? 

- Encourage their children to be independent and to develop their potential and talents

Example

- Do not force their children to study subjects they don’t like such as laws and medicine if they are not interested.

- They should only guide and encourage their children to choose a suitable field according their own interests.

Why? Effect

- Helping their children to discover their potentials and make good choices in life.

- Mould their children’s characters and personalities.

4. Role model

How? Why?

- Become good model

- Must be careful in what they do, what they say and behave (their behavior) as their children look up them as an example

Bad Example + Effect

- Parents who scream and shout at their children over small matters will end up having children with low self-esteem and who are too passive.

- When they become parents, probably they will do the same thing to their children because these habits have become innate.

Good Example + Effect

- If parents always show exemplary behavior to their children such as respect others, be polite with others and more, for sure children will take up these positive behaviors and definitely they will behave nicely just like their parents did.   

- So, this can build good character in their children.  

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Essay：“The trend of working mother contributes to the rise of social illness. ”How far do you agree? agree

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Social illness can be defined as an issue that influences a considerable number of individuals within a society. The examples of social illness which are always published by mass media are smoking, loafing and indulging drug and so on. This problem has brought about many negative effects to the people from the all walks of life. Why this problem occurred?  Do we point the finger to the authorities without thinking out the ways to curb this problem? As the saying goes, there is no smoke without fire. Actually, I think that the trend of working mother contributes to the rise of social illness. Below are the reasons why I said so.

 First of all, the leading reason is working mother can cause the children easily associate with bad friends. This matter is said so because if both parents work, their children will be out of their sight and free. As the maxim goes, when the cat is away, the mice will play. So, children may go out late with their friends and carry out anything they want. For example, children will listen to their friends’ words to do negative things like smoking and taking drug without thinking out the effects of these activities and indirectly they will be led to go astray. This is why I believe that working mother is hard to avoid their children make friend with bad people and this can increase the occurrence of social illness.

            Apart from that, social illness will occur when children lacks love from their mothers. A German fashion designer, Karl Lagerfeld has said a saying which is “The only love that I really believe in is a mother’s love for her children.” This quote clearly illustrates that mother love is an effective antidote which can solve problems their children face when their children feel sad and interrogative. If children do not get enough love and attention at home, they will relieve their unhappy emotion outside by doing anything they want. This will cause their mental unbalanced and behave badly. For instance, they may bully other classmate in the school by fighting and mocking them in order to relieve their emotion. Thus, working mother who does not allocate their quality time to concern their children with love will lead to the children lack love and easily involve in social illness.

            In addition, working mother can lead to an estrangement family relationship. Due to the reason that conflict problems can occur if there is competition or resentment because one parent is earning more money than the other. The conflict problem can also occur when they are under the pressure from their jobs. For example, due to the demands of the money, a lot of mothers may have to take a job they do not like. In that case, they may bring their frustration and unhappiness home, where it will spill over into family relationships. This will cause their relationship with children are drift apart and children will be scared when staying at home and they will prefer stay outside. This can bring about them involve in social problem easily. As the saying goes, practise what you preach. Hence, working mother that bring their frustration and unhappiness home and do not show exemplary behaviour to their children will cause their children look up their bad behaviour as example and the relationship between family members become estranged as well as cause the increase of social illness.

Last but not least, children lack religious and moral education is also a factor why I think that the trend of working mother contributes to the rise of social illness. A famous monk, Dalai Lama has said a saying, “This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.”  This quote is clearly certificate that religious is a must for everyone to mould a good individual with a kind heart and good behaviour. If mothers do not give religious and moral education to their children, their children will be in the state of perplexity and behave in disorderly manner. For example, children will speak vulgarities, behave badly and do not respect teacher or old people. It cannot be denied that working mother will bring about the children lack religious and moral education and without religious and moral education they will involve in social illness easily.

By and large, these are the reasons why I think that the trend of working mother contributes to the rise of social illness a. If this problem does not be solved immediately, it can bring about many negative effects to our nation and us. In my opinions, I think that the fathers should also play their roles and work hand in hand with the mothers to guide their children to become good and useful individuals and prevent them involving in social illness. This would definitely mould many successful younger generation who will lead our nation towards the path of excellence in the future.

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Essay：Why do students suffer from stress?

Stress is the feeling of being under too much mental or emotional pressure. Pressure turns into stress when you feel unable to cope. People have different ways of reacting to stress, so a situation that feels stressful to one person may be motivating to someone else. The people who always suffer from stress are students. Students experience great amounts of stress, whether teenagers or college age, in the family or among their peers. There are the main causes below why do students suffer from stress.

There is no smoke without fire. The main cause of this problem is academic pressure. Parents nowadays are increasingly becoming result-oriented to their children’s academic performance. They send their children to tuition centre or even hire private tutors to teach their children. They do not care about their children’s notion, but they just want their children attain flying colours result in examination and they exert too much stress to them. This can cause their children feel stressful and even hate study. It is clear that academic pressure is one of the causes why do students suffer from stress.

Not only that, students will also suffer from stress due to environmental factor. The school environment itself can be a cause of stress on students and family environment as well. For example, when students move into secondary education, some of them need to leave home and establishing a new life in the hostels. This can lead to stress on them to adapt a new environment. On the other hand, if students’ parents are always busy in their jobs, they will not have enough time to accompany their children to understand their problems and condition. This can lead to the problems that the students face cannot be solved easily and they will be stressful as well. It cannot be denied that environmental factor is a cause why do students suffer from stress.

Aside from that, the other factor that causes students becoming stressful is peer pressure. Peer pressure is a powerful mental force that influences students because peer pressure will let them getting influenced by the lifestyles and the way of thinking of their peers. When students see their fellows obtain excellent results in examination, they will compare their results with their fellows’ results. Although their fellows’ results are better a bit than them only, they will still feel stressful and even doubt their own ability. It goes without saying that students will become stressful due to the peer pressure.

Last but not least, another factor that students suffer from stress is love pressure. Student’s life throughout high School and college is filled with thinking about dating, trying to date, falling to date, and being “dumped”. If they have a boyfriend or girlfriend, they must care about their partner’s matters and pay their attention in fostering the feelings between them. As a result, students will be worried about their girlfriend or boyfriend and become stressful. It is true that love pressure is one of the causes why do students suffer from stress.

All in all, these are the causes why do students suffer from stress. Form my opinions, parents should take time to recognize the stresses their children face. They should also provide stress management techniques to their children and encourage them. By doing so, I strongly believe that students will have a lifestyle with joy and happiness without any stress.

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